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Thinking capGender Again. Sorry!My views on the transgender issue are quite simple. I can understand the difference between one's sex and gender and perfectly well understand there are people whose gender does not match their birth sex and wish to transition. These people need to be able to lead the life they wish without criticism or abuse. I can also understand the limited number of occasions such as some physical sports or use of traditionally single sex facilities such as toilets, where they are not allowed to have exactly the same access rights as their chosen gender...unless the vast majority of that gender have no issues and are prepared to accept them. There are limits to absolute freedom and rights within any society depending on the mores of that society. I do not consider it transphobic to have concerns about these issues.
The issue is complicated by aspects such as what form of criteria are acceptable for gender change recognition ranging from a simple declaration to gender re-assignment surgery, and I do not yet have a view on what the criteria should be.
I view the most extreme and abusive supporters of either side of the argument, in this country and the US, with equal distaste and do not believe the views of those extremes to be any reasonable guide to the views of most people on either side. I am not a great supporter of 'the right is on my side' or 'they started it' when it comes to verbal or physical abuse or threats, believing that they just deepen the polarisation. The tweet above about that woman protesting at the school's action over her child's transition actually proves nothing about the issues involved, nor makes any resolution easier, but is about apportioning blame and a further reflection of this polarisation.
This thread should be an opportunity for all issues to be discussed, as I believe was Claud's aim in starting it, but sadly it has turned toxic and is far too much about apportionment of blame.
I like Rusty. Rusty is a reasonable guy. He's written a reasonable post. I've given this post a fair amount of thought. This is my conclusion:
Unless Rusty stops by to challenge this, I'm content to let it stand as my rebuttal.
At some point during my absence I see that Rusty and multitool took positions on each other.
multitool: What on earth makes you think I care less what you think? Have I not been clear enough
Rusty Nails: Rent Free ![](https://prettygoodbritain.com/wp/wp-content/uploads/2023/04/rolleyes.gif)
multitool: The last thing you do is occupy any space in my head, pal ![](https://prettygoodbritain.com/wp/wp-content/uploads/2022/10/laughing.gif)
I don't like multitool. I think multitool is a psychopath – and no, I don't think that's too strong a word. It's exactly the right word.
The difference between the almost right word and the right word is really a large matter. ’tis the difference between the lightning bug and the lightning.
This is my reply to the 535 posts multitool has made on this thread as of early o'clock this morning:
Yes I counted, though I'm not normally one for
stats. I was curious how
monobore was
his obsession. For the record, AuroraSaab, who's also been called a monobore, clocks in at 577 for the same time period starting from January 8th when multitool rolled into town (after all of 13 posts back at the mothership). Consider that she has a lot more skin in the game than he does, unless you count what he has to lose in terms of misogynist's rights.
As he appears to take some interest in the life of the mind,
it is clear that he has lost his mind
those of us without diseased minds
I'm going to introduce a concept that will blow Aurora's mind
hate cultist Maya Forster loses her mind
here's a scan of my brain. See if you can spot the area of concern:
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The problem isn't that multitool's views are the opposite of mine, which
of course [underlined to highlight its extreme obviousness] are the only views a sensible person would hold on this particular topic: it's that he's unremittingly, irredeemably dishonest. Like monkers (who is slyly better at justifying TRA violence), he can talk a good game, but there's a rottenness at the core.
Here is an actual scan of his brain. Best not to ask how I obtained it.
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As long as I'm at it, here's one of the sheep
so often outside the window of NACF HQ. Guess what's on
their minds.
Sorry, where were we again? Gender.
If women's rights and safety and well being were properly respected, if women and their needs their diversity even, were not so often disregarded, then we wouldn't need to be having this discussion.
Welcome to our timeline.
Never mind 'rusty 'we need some 'hard as'
We can't just have you being mildly to moderately concerned, taking a measured view, listening carefully, considering all viewpoints or any of that tedious anodyne, wishy washy
"Well I can see some valid views on both sides" kind of liberal hogwash..
You must very very firmly
'Nail' your colours to the mast, pick a 'side' like it's 'serious' battle, and start spilling some blood OK??
I mean this is t'internet right ??
It is serious in more ways than NACAns have shown a willingness to discuss.
Wishy-washy is what got us where we are now, which is indeed like something out of a horror movie.
on edit:
I originally wrote "'A measured view' is what got us where we are now," copying mudsticks' phrase without thinking too much about it; simply conflating it with 'reasonable', my word for Rusty Nails, whom I've decided to haul before this tribunal again. My point was that what passes for measured debate concerning the rights of trans-identifying men
surely you mean trans women
Although I use that formulation along with nearly everyone else, it has been one way of immediately ceding ground, trans women in fact being a subset of men.
Behold the power of words.
as they impact the rights of women always seems to do a disservice to women.
Behold reason:
No seriously, behold reason. I've posted this before, but everything old is new again:
One more? One more.
Even moreish.Isn't it good to see what happens in a room when no one is shouted down, heckled, where mistruths are immediately challenged, where everyone is given space to talk.
[Trans] people need to be able to lead the life they wish without criticism or abuse.
Fancy being able to live one's life without criticism. That doesn't sound like a human right available to all: it sounds like a privilege to be afforded a select minority.
A pastor in North Dakota has gone one better,
inviting parody.And Jesus spake unto them saying, "she/he/they who is without sin, murder the first 3 children, and add onto that 3 adults for good measure." And the crowd put down their stones and took up their guns, ready to spread the gospel of the good news to all nations: that vengeance is not the Lord's, as the prophets of old had taught, but "hate has consequences."
The Gospel of The Apostle Saint Judith (she/they) 13:69
Not being multitool I know Rusty didn't mean we can't criticise
the new sacred caste at
all. However, it still reads as if there should be an assumption of right
eousness. An Immaculate Conception, if you will. As for the Daily Mail story, one may scoff at the source (as I do with nearly everything
appearing in Penis News), and make an independent translation of the pastor's actual words, but to emerge without jaw dropped is to admit at least some indoctrination by the
cult religion. Speaking of which, nuns. Great role models, as my wife who went to Catholic school will tell you. AuroraSaab
nails it:Are gender critical women stopping the nuns from speaking? Are they chucking soup over them or punching them in the face? Or carrying sign suggesting they should be decapitated?
You seem to be trying to give the impression that feminists are stopping other women from speaking. They aren't. That would be 'your' side. I asked before but you didn't reply: Can you find me any photos of gender critical women turning up at trans demos or meetings to abuse and intimidate them?
That's a reply to multitool. After the usual stop at parasitical neo-nazis he
pivots to the bogs. We've all been there.
Look, if you truly 'pass' (in all likelihood you don't, but women have been too polite to say so), then by definition nobody will notice and there's no issue as nobody wants genital police. Though I'm sure there's a pornhub category for it.
The problem is when you normalise men who can't be questioned for being where they shouldn't be. Like so.
There's a better discussion at
Mumsnet than is ever likely to happen at NACA, especially considering that the one person who usually nails it, doesn't. Toilets functioned reasonably well before trans rights activists threw a spanner in the way society works, eh?
Let's have a musical interlude.
Back to Rusty:
I view the most extreme and abusive supporters of either side of the argument, in this country and the US, with equal distaste
"Abusive" is, as they say, doing a lot of heavy lifting here.
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Too many TRAs are demonstrably menacing and violent in the old-fashioned sense of the word as well as in language, whereas TERFs are physically hands off and tend to use actually reasonable language, which TRAs famously regard as literal violence and sympathisers regard as hurty at the very least. This both sidesism so beloved of the 'reasonable' person is exhausting and wrong.
You do wonder how much NACAns like Rusty Nails expose themselves to.
Reading this, I could easily imagine them nodding their heads along with the BBC, determined not to stray far from the approved narrative.
I have ascertained that Rusty wants society to be very measured as it navigates its way to letting women complain about men in their spaces.
And if you’re aware of the
Dentons document you’ll know trans activists have been measured indeed, as in carefully considered in their tactics.
As we continue to witness the methodical destruction of women's rights, I was perhaps not wrong in alighting upon the word myself, but there was better language to hand, courtesy mudsticks: wishy and its mate washy. A nearly perfect encapsulation. Cheers.